Sometimes things need to be let go of. If it’s meant to be, you will find each other again…….
Some of us think that holding on to things make us stronger or happy but in reality, it is letting things or people go which makes us happy and strong. Holding to a person who doesn’t want to be a part of your life and doesn’t want to be with you will not make you happy. Holding on to something which doesn’t hold any place in your life is dangerous. Let go….. it is to be understood that people come and go..that’s a part of life, stop holding on to those who have let go of you long ago. One of the courageous decision you will ever make is to let go of what is hurting your heart and soul……letting go of someone is hard but holding onto someone who doesn’t feel the same way you do is even harder.
Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care anymore or you have lost your feelings.. it simply means to let go of things that are killing you from inside. We always fear to let of someone because deep inside we still have hope that one day things will change for good and you will have the person with you… holding you up and walking by your side but if you really love somebody, let them go, if they return.. they were always yours and if they don’t, they never were. The biggest mistake we make is losing ourselves in the process of loving someone too much and forgetting that we are special too. Letting go to realize that the only person you have control over is yourself and not others. There are things we don’t want to happen but have to accept, things we don’t want to know but have to learn, and people we can’t live without but have to let go….. try to let go and love yourself…understand the worth of self-love and self-acceptance.
When you let go you create space for something better. Its time to let go when they stop looking at you the way they used to, they stop seeing you the way they used to and you just know that they stopped caring about you… its time to let them go…. Cry…let the tear fall, Forgive, learn and move on. At some point in life, you will realize that some people can stay in your heart and not in your life. Letting go is the last stage of heartbreak, and at this stage, it stops being so tough to watch all the time you shared fading away into past…. sometimes holding on will damage more than letting go……
Respect yourself enough to let go of someone who doesn’t see your worth. You deserve someone who would jump boundaries to be with you. Not someone who will be a boundary for you. MOVING ON ISN’T ABOUT LOVING SOMEONE ANYMORE AND FORGETTING THEM. IT’S ABOUT HAVING THE STRENGTH TO SAY I STILL LOVE YOU, BUT you ARE NOT WORTH THIS PAIN. You can give them another chance, or you can forgive, let go, and give yourself a better chance. Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be. To heal a wound you need to stop touching it.
Everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. The truth is unless you let go, unless you forgive the situation, unless you realize the situation is over, you cannot move forward. Head up, stay strong, let it go and move on. It hurts but eventually it will heal. Sometimes people come to your life to teach you how to let go. Let go of the illusion that it could have been different or it might get different.
Holding on is believing that there’s only a past; letting go is knowing that there’s a future. To let go is to release the images and emotions, the grudges and fears, the clingings and disappointments of the past that bind our spirit. You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy. So let them go, let go of them and tie no weights to your ankles.