We have a tendency of judging people with out knowing them or making a certain kind of an image of a person who is new to us or who you have just met. If you don’t know a person it is unfair on another person part. He/ she will have to first clear the ongoing image which might be all false and then make her/ his own real image. we should not be unfair. It is human tendency to judge people without knowing the in and out of that person or even knowing the person. We should give time to the person to know the environment and then grow in that environment. The preconceived notions should be neglected. Even if we want to criticise the person then also we should first know the person and then build an image for them. You can’t just make an image without knowing them. You might think that the person is sweet but in reality, the person could be cunning and rude or vice- versa, so you should try to know the person and then make any kind of image.
People constantly change like climate so don’t ever think that you know them fully. You have to give time to another person to open up and show the reality and what and who that person is in reality. Never judge someone without knowing the whole story, you may think you know them or understands them but reality can be different. Same like the famous saying ” never judge a book by its cover” never judge a person by appearance. It’s very awkward when you thing you know the person verywell however the reality is something else and you dont know anything about that person, so try to know the person before making any assunptions or taking any decisions.
Never condemn someone based on what other person is telling you or what you hear beacuse there is always a lot more to the story than what is told. You have to bulid an understanding with the other person in order to know the real story and the truth. Everyone sees what you appear in outer world only know and choosen one will know what you really are. There is a difference between knowing somebody and hearing about somebody, just because you heard doesnt mean you know. Take time , understand and try to know the person.
Never judge someone without knowing the whole story you might think you know the whole story and you understand, however reality could be different and you might not know the person. The only way to know someone is to love them without keeping any hope.
When you judge someone without knowing them you dont define them you define yourself. Don’t talk about someone untill you have talked to them, don’t underestimate someone until you challenge them, don’t judge until you know. When someone judges you its not about you its about their insecurities, limitations. Don’t judge someones character and attitude untill you have felt their pain and lives their life. Don’t judge if you can’t understand, judging a person is very easy if you don’t know the reality, try to know the person first and then judge them or have a true picture of that person. Don’t be unfair to that person. You live your life and the person lives their own. You shouldn’t judge someone without knowing them.
Don’t judge someone because they live a different life than you and they make mistakes differently and they learn from mistakes differently. Their lessons are different from yours.